I know that at times it seemed like loving him was the only way for you to feel alive. It just made sense, and it made your world go round. But did you ever stop to think that maybe that’s the exact reason why you’re not as comfortable on your own?
No matter what brought you to this point, you’re here now, and you need to learn to love every inch of yourself. Nobody can teach you that but yourself.
With him by your side, you may have felt whole, but right now, you’re on your own, and it’s time you started giving yourself that pep talk you give your heartbroken girlfriends whenever they’re in need of one.
He wasn’t what made you so amazing. It was always you! You just didn’t see it due to your obsession over him. I’m glad you’re here now, because now, you can finally learn to appreciate yourself for the amazing woman that you are, and hopefully see that you don’t need a man to make you feel whole.
You’re perfectly fine on your own. Only after you have fully embraced that will you be able to move forward in a way that benefits you in the long run.
He was not your world. For a while, he was a big part of it, but now that he has faded away, your memory of him needs to as well. It didn’t work out for a reason. If he was your forever person, he would still be by your side, and you wouldn’t be reading this right now.
There is a whole world out there, full of possibilities. Are you seriously going to sit there, feeling sorry for yourself, thinking you’re not good enough without him, when you can literally meet the man of your dreams tomorrow on your way to the Farmer’s market?
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Grieving the loss of a relationship is a normal step toward healing, and nobody can deny you that. You have given so much to him and invested a lot of your time and sacrifice only to have it shatter into pieces and fall apart before your eyes.
But after a while, it becomes unhealthy. You need to get back to doing you! You need to get your heart to cooperate with your mind and focus on getting yourself back on track because guess what? You’re perfectly capable of being on your own.
The love you still may feel for him is draining you and steering your focus away from what your heart really needs. And it’s not him!
You are wasting your time by keeping yourself in a past love and refusing to keep going and give yourself a chance to see what the world has to offer.
Remind yourself of what made you happy before he came into your life. What made you happy to be alive and motivated you to get up in the morning? Think about that for a second, and try to go back to that.
It’s important to remind yourself of the person you were pre-relationship because that is what will make you realize that you once lived a happy, fulfilling life before you even met him and make you see that you can do it again. All is need is willpower.
The only love you should need to feel in order to feel like a whole person again is none other than the love you have for yourself!
When you learn to love who you are, without needing anyone’s validation, you will have made the biggest progress post-breakup, and it will make you see things from a much better perspective.
Then, you will see that until you are perfectly fine and content in your own skin, you can’t maintain a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Because you don’t need a man to complete you. You are already a complete person!
What you need is a man who will add to your life by being an encouraging partner; who will understand that you are a self-sufficient woman who doesn’t need him to feel whole but wants him by her side.
And when you get to the point where you love yourself enough not to accept anything but a partner who will motivate you, encourage you and support you, you will know without a doubt what true partnership really is, and never settle for less.