Whenever you get into a relationship with someone, it’s only natural for the two of you to have a few arguments here and there. It’s just downright impossible to ALWAYS see eye to eye with someone on EVERYTHING. Life just doesn’t work that way. We are all very unique and distinct individuals who carry our own personal worldviews that differ depending on who we are. And with these contrasting worldviews, some clashes are bound to arise from time to time – and that’s okay. That’s part of growth. Being able to be in a disagreement with someone is part of human coexistence.
It’s all about being able to rise above these differences to coexist peacefully. However, there are just some people who want to pick fights just for the fun of it. There are so many human beings who just want to argue for the sake of arguing. And that’s not always a good thing. In fact, it rarely ever is. You never want to be stuck in a relationship who is practically looking to start a fight with you on just about anything. That can generate a lot of unnecessary conflict and drama in your relationship that you might not want to deal with; that you might not really be equipped to handle.
There is toxic fighting and there is healthy fighting – and whether or not your fights fall under a certain category really depends on who you are as a couple and how you handle these tense situations. But at the end of the day, if you are able to minimize the toxicity and division that comes with confrontation, then you are putting yourselves in a better position to succeed at your relationship. You really don’t want to end up with a partner who is just going to be stressing you out with arguments all of the time. You want a partner who is going to hear you out; someone who is going to want to hear what you have to say.
You want a partner who isn’t just going to antagonize you and make you feel like you need to constantly have your defenses up. Now that isn’t to say that the Zodiac signs that are going to be listed on here are downright impossible to coexist with. Of course not. But what this article is merely trying to stress is that there are certain Zodiac signs that are equipped with specific personality traits which could drive them to be very confrontational people.
And if you’re someone who doesn’t really respond well to confrontation; if you’re not someone who can function when there isn’t constant peace, you might want take a step back and reassess for a little bit. Or what if you, yourself, are someone who is confrontational and you didn’t even know it? Well, read on further to find out more.
1. ARIES (MARCH 21 – APRIL 19)
As an Aries, you can be very confrontational. There’s no denying that you have a very aggressive and straightforward personality. You don’t play around. You don’t beat around the bush. You don’t really like to live life under anyone else’s rules – and this can be a source of conflict a lot. You like to live life at your own pace; and sometimes, you can be a little insensitive. You have so much energy within you that you can come off as incredibly overpowering to a lot of the people that you meet.
2. GEMINI (MAY 22 – JUNE 21)
As a Gemini, it’s always going to be a genuinely hot and cold experience with you. You have a very unpredictable personality and no one really is able to tell just how you’re going to act whenever you’re with them. A lot of people would even brand you as being unstable. And there actually is some truth to that. You have a very volatile personality. No one ever really knows what kind of mood you’re going to be in or how you’re going to react to a certain situation – and a lot of the time, it’s not always a wanted reaction.
3. LEO (JULY 23 – AUGUST 22)
You’re a Leo. You are the most important person in your life; and as a result, it’s very easy for you to feel threatened by the emergence of any other prominent people in your life. You always see yourself as the best. And you don’t want anyone to serve as a threat to that claim. You mark your territory with you hostility and your combativeness. You are a very passionate and intense person; and that can sometimes rub people the wrong way.
4. VIRGO (AUGUST 23 – SEPTEMBER 22)
The reason that you’re so confrontational as a Virgo is because you are such a perfectionist. You demand so much from the people that you’re with to the point that you antagonize them whenever they don’t meet your expectations. You can be very stressful to be around because of you refusal to be mellow and easygoing.