1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You aren’t necessarily someone who is going to be willing to wait for love; it’s either love goes at your pace or you leave it behind. And that can be hard for a lot of people. Not everyone lives life as intensely and as passionately as you. A lot of people like to take their time; and they find it difficult adjusting to the pace that you want them to adjust to.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)
You don’t fall in love because of your close-mindedness. You need to remember that you aren’t perfect. You are going to get things wrong sometimes. And even if you’re right, not everyone is always going to share the same opinion as you. You need to be more open-minded and more receptive of other peoples’ ideas. If not, you’re just going to end up turning everyone else away.
3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)
It’s hard for people to get you to fall for them because you get bored and distracted WAY too easily. Whenever you feel like you’re falling into a kind of pattern with someone, you drop them and you look for stimulation elsewhere.
4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)
You are probably not the hardest person to convince when it comes to falling in love. In fact, out of all the Zodiac signs, you are probably the most loving and caring. As a Cancer, you have a very kind heart; but it’s too afraid of getting hurt. And that’s what keeps you back from falling in love with someone. You sometimes let your fear cripple you into doing nothing.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
It’s to question that it’s your ego that makes it so difficult for you to fall in love with someone. How can you expect to fall in love for someone else when you’re just far too in love with yourself? You’re going to need to humble yourself a little bit to allow room for someone else in your life.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Is it really a wonder as to why it’s so hard to get you to fall in love with someone? As a Virgo, you probably have the highest standards out of all the Zodiac signs. You always have unreasonable expectations. You seem to think that people should always be perfect if they’re going to be worthy of love. But people aren’t perfect. And that’s why it’s so hard to please you.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You don’t really have too many things holding you back when it comes to falling in love. As a Libra, you have lots of love inside of you to give.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
It’s so hard to get you to fall in love with someone because of your cynicism and pessimism. You always choose to see the worst in people. You are never going to be able to fall in love with a person if you don’t see that person’s light. You have to stop focusing on a person’s darkness; try to see the beauty in everyone you meet on a daily basis.
9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
It’s so hard to get you to fall in love because you’re so afraid of committing yourself to a single person. You’re so scared of having to deal with the commitments that come with being in a relationship. As a Sagittarius, you only ever really value your freedom. And it’s so hard for others to convince you that you don’t have to be trapped just because you’re in a relationship.
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
It’s your sheer ambition and lack of time that makes you so difficult to win over. Plenty of people love you and are inspired by your work ethic. It’s just that you don’t give anyone the time it takes to get to know them in an intimate manner. You are too consumed by your personal goals that you tend to put your social and romantic life on hold a lot.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
It shouldn’t be all too hard to figure out as to why it’s so hard to get you to fall in love with a person. You are an Aquarius and you don’t deal with feelings well. How can you fall in love with someone if you refuse to confront your own emotions? You need to learn to process your feelings better to make it easier for people to get you to fall for them. The more you suppress how you feel, the more difficult it will be for you to fall in love.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You have your head up in the clouds. You are always clamoring for that fairytale style of romance even though in real life, those kinds of narratives never exist. As a Pisces, you buy too much into the idea that love should always be like you see it in the movies. It’s not like that. And you’re never going to fall in love until you understand what REAL love is supposed to look like.