This is how you’ll unknowingly ruin your relationship.
Aries (March 21 April 19)
You just keep on falling in love with toxic people who ruin your character and your personality. These people taint your view on love and they basically ruin love for you each time. These toxic relationships that you get into are often abusive ones and they take away huge chunks of your soul every time they end. You just need to make better choices with regards to the people you’re with.
Taurus (April 20 May 21)
You just always refuse to take a risk when it comes to love and that’s why you fail at it. You always just choose to settle for mediocrity. Complacency gets the best of you and you always end up getting into a love affair that is less than you really deserve. It’s all because you’re just afraid to step outside of your comfort zone. You need to explore the life beyond your own for you to discover new things about life and love.
Gemini (May 22 June 21)
You try to kid yourself into believing that the love that you have is the one that you really want. You’re too afraid of being alone and so you try to force yourself that the love affairs that you’re in are actually the right ones for you. You’re just desperate to grab at any chance you can get to have a relationship with someone regardless of whether it’s right for you.
Cancer (June 22 July 22)
You’re just a little too selfless and so people will tend to abuse and walk all over you in relationships. Yes, it’s always good to be thoughtful and selfless in a relationship. You should always be willing to be generous in a relationship but you must also learn to stand your ground. Relationships are always about compromise and you don’t always have to be the one who has to make adjustments.
Leo (July 23 August 22)
You just have to open up more and let go of your pride a little bit. Everyone knows that you never like to put yourself in a position of weakness but you have to understand that that’s sometimes necessary in love. You have to understand that vulnerability is a perfectly normal aspect of any relationship. You have to be able to let yourself go for your partner once in a while.
Virgo (August 23 September 22)
You have just too high expectations when it comes to love. You always demand too much from your partners and so you end up missing out on a great person. You have to be able to make compromises when it comes to your standards. You can’t expect everyone to fit your ideal mold of love. Human beings are just naturally flawed and you have to accept that.
Libra (September 23 October 22)
You think too highly of people. You are a little too optimistic and idealistic for your own good. You always expect people to be on their best behavior even though they will always be prone to having evil tendencies. Sometimes, your love can blind you from the destructive nature of the people that you’re with, and that can spell trouble for your emotions.
Scorpio (October 23 November 22)
You are too independent for your own good. You just like to operate on your own because you don’t want to give other people the opportunity to disappoint you. That’s your problem. You have developed a sense of being a little too anti-social to a point wherein you don’t trust anyone anymore. Remember that love and relationships always have to be built on trust for others.
Sagittarius (November 23 December 21)
You just refuse to relinquish control in any relationship that you’re in. You always believe that it’s your responsibility to steer the ship of the relationship at all times. You always want to exude strength to your partner. You fail to understand that sometimes, it’s okay to be weak in a relationship. It’s okay to give your partner control every once in a while.
Capricorn (December 22 January 20)
You just think too much about what other think of the relationship you’re in. The opinions of third parties shouldn’t matter much to you with your relationship. Remember that no one truly understands how you feel about your love except for yourself. You are always the best judge of the situation that you’re in. Don’t give in to all the white noise.
Aquarius (January 21 February 18)
There are just gaps in your life that you need to fill before you can actually find success in your relationships. You have to understand that these gaps can’t be filled by the love of other people. You need to go out and achieve your own personal goals and dreams that you’ve set for yourself. You can’t rely on a relationship to bail you out.
Pisces (February 19 March 20)
You just never learn. You keep falling for the same kind of person over and over again and you expect different results every single time. It’s just never the case. You are the one who always ends up getting hurt and heartbroken and you really need to change the type of people you choose to be with.