One sex position that doesn’t get nearly enough attention is reverse missionary. Learn how to rock their world in reverse with these tips.
If you’ve been with the same person for a long time, you know how important it is to spice things up in the bedroom. You can’t keep having the same boring sex over and over again. You need to make it fresh and exciting each time. And one great way to do that is with reverse missionary.
In general, trying new sex positions of any kind will make things a lot more exciting but reverse missionary, in particular, is one not many people try. But they should. It feels great and adds a lot of sensations you don’t normally feel.
Other ways to keep your sex life exciting
Switching up and trying new sex positions aren’t the only ways to keep your sex life interesting. There are actually a lot of things all couples should be doing in order to have a healthy sex life.
You can have sex in new places, start using sex toys, and even try some role-playing. The bottom line is that you should be experimenting and doing something different each time you hit the sheets. [Read: 17 of the best and naughty ways to spice up your sex life]
What is reverse missionary?
If you have no idea what this position would even look like, don’t worry. I was right there with you not long ago. With all the sex positions nowadays, it’s difficult to keep them straight. We’ve got you covered, though.
Reverse missionary is when the woman goes on top and lays on top of the man with her legs fully extended next to his. Basically, if you’re in regular missionary and spin over so the guy is on his back, it’s reverse missionary. Simple enough. [Read: 30 sex positions to try in 30 days or less]
How to do reverse missionary and blow your partner’s mind
Sex is great. It should always be great. But in order to make sure you’re fully enjoying your partner in the bedroom, you have to try new things every now and then.
And that means getting down with some new sex positions. One in particular you should make a point of slipping into your normal sex routine is reverse missionary. Here’s how to do it and the different ways you can make it more exciting.
#1 Get warmed up first. No sex position is really going to be good if you’re not fully warmed up first. Reverse missionary is no exception. Make sure both of you are engaging in a decent amount of foreplay before diving in and starting this position.
Since this position does focus a lot on grinding and the g-spot, making sure the girl is fully stimulated will make it that much better. [Read: How to foreplay for the best sex ever]
#2 Make sure you’ve got the more active positions done. I’ll be honest with you, this is a lazy position. Neither of you will want to do too much work so make sure you’re finished with the more active positions.
This can actually be used as a great way for both of you to catch your breath mid-romp. Use the time to continue the stimulation while relaxing so you can hop right back into some fast-paced positions.
#3 Set the mood. Reverse missionary is a very passionate position. Since you have so much contact with each other, you’ll want to have the mood match. Throw on some passionate music, light some candles, and be intimate with one another.
#4 Throw in some dirty talk. If you want to make reverse missionary even better, talk dirty! Since the two of you are so close and so involved with one another, it’s a perfect opportunity to express just how much you love their body.
If you’re new to dirty talk, first start by explaining what you like about the position. Then you can move into instructing them where to touch you and how you like it. This will make things all the more exciting. [Read: How to talk dirty in bed and turn your lover on]
#5 Get your hips moving. The best part about this position – for women, anyway – is the fact that it’s great for grinding. Grinding feels the best for women because it’s constant pressure on her g-spot. So move your hips and make sure you take full advantage of that opportunity.
#6 Feel each other’s bodies. Since you are touching your partner with basically your entire body, enjoy it. Feel their arms and chest and run your hands through their hair. Don’t just let your arms remain motionless. This touching can create even more sensations when you’re already so sensitive to their touch. Use it to your advantage!
#7 Get aggressive. Ladies, this is mostly for you. With the woman on top, she’s in charge. You can move in any way you please and completely take over. Not only is this really sexy and empowering for you, but your partner will think so too. It’ll make the sex hotter and much more passionate. [Read: 14 wild ways to get aggressive in the bedroom]
#8 Let your passion take over. Don’t try to control yourself. Your entire body is pressed up against your partner – hard. Let your emotions go. Let your body be natural. Usually, that means you’ll become more and more passionate. This will make your sex naughtier and hotter than ever before.
Other underrated position you have to try
If you’re looking to spice up your sex life – which you should be – there are other sex positions most people never even think of. Try these the next time you’re getting down and dirty with your lover. [Read: 13 spicy sex positions to heat up your bedroom romps]
#1 Reverse cowgirl. In order to rock this position, the ladies will have to straddle their man backward. Let them get a full view of that behind. This is super underrated. Not many people think of it in the heat of the moment but it’s sexy as hell. It gives the women sole control and men get an amazing view.
#2 Spooning sex. This sweet and relaxed sex position is hardly used anymore, but it should be. Just have sex while lying on your side. Not only is this a really great way to build intimacy by having so much contact, it also hits the woman’s g-spot perfectly. [Read: 15 ways to make spooning sex hotter than any other position]
#3 Upright doggy style. I’m not even sure why this isn’t used more. When the girl is on all fours, just have her rise to her knees so your torsos are touching. This not only makes it easier to hit her g-spot, but it also gives the guy a handful.
#4 Standing sex. You can do standing sex anywhere, but so many people avoid it. Next time you feel like getting it on, take things away from the bed and toward the wall. It’ll be sexy and passionate as ever. [Read: 9 ways to have great shower sex and enjoy it]
#5 Lotus position. If you want to add some intimacy and romance to your sex life, this underrated sex position will do just that. With the man sitting upright, have the woman climb on top while facing him and wrap her legs around his waist. It creates a very personal atmosphere that can give you the best orgasms.
When it comes to making sure your relationship and sex life are healthy, you need to try new things. Reverse missionary is definitely the best position you should try next while getting frisky with your lover.