In the age of modern dating, every woman would love to have a man who will be all that she has ever dreamed about. He should be loving, successful, caring, rich and good-looking.
But in reality, it is not like that. In reality, women date men with flaws. But the most important thing is that with the right women those men are working so hard to improve themselves. And that matters more than a gold Rolex on his hand or that fancy restaurant he wants to take you to. Love matters.
Support matters. Understanding matters. And that is what girls should realize nowadays. That’s why I decided to present some of the most common traits these men have and why they make the best boyfriends.
1. He is kind
There isn’t anything sweeter than a man who is kind and polite. You can take him wherever you want and he will never do something that will look bad or embarrass you.
If he is kind to you and if he is aware of what jackpot he hit when he won you over, you won’t have any problems with him. A kind man will always be desirable, no matter what he looks like. And that is what most girls need to realize if they want to find the right one.
2. He listens to you
If he always listens to what you have to say and if he respects your opinion, then he is the real deal. A guy like that will always know what to say to you so you would feel better.
He will know what is going on in your life and he will know how to react in every situation. A man like that is worthy because he will always be the one you can rely on in difficult situations.
3. He is intelligent
An intelligent man can make your life way easier than you think. He will always know how to act and he will know your boundaries so he will know what he can do if he wants to prevent hurting you.
He will be able to organize everything about the house, the kids and his work and you won’t have to raise him like some women do with their husbands. He is a grown-ass man and he knows how to take care of himself. And trust me, a man like that is every woman’s dream.
4. He is supportive
Every woman needs support from her loved one. She needs to know that he cherishes what she does for their family and for him. So, if a guy is supportive and if he sees how hard she works to make a decent life for them, then he is a keeper.
A guy like that is worth falling for because he will always be aware of what his partner sacrifices to create a good life for them. So girls, choose guys who support you from the beginning of the relationship because they are the real deal.
5. He is mature
A mature man is every girl’s dream. In a world where we often have to raise our partner like we are their mother, it is really nice to have a mature man in your life to handle things. It is nice to rely on someone, to know he will always be there and to feel safe when he is around.
A mature man will always know what to do and how to act in different situations and he will never try to play mind games to get what he wants. He won’t act like a spoiled brat but he will firmly stand behind his actions.
6. He has a good sense of humor
A guy with a great sense of humor is always a good catch. He knows how to make you feel good even if you are worried or anxious about something. He will know how to make you happy on your worst days and with him, you will always have a good time.
A man like this will be fun to go out with because he will tell jokes and try to create a good atmosphere. And his sense of humor will bail him out of every awkward situation, which is a bonus.
7. He feels deeply
A man who can feel deeply is a man worth fighting for. If he can see how you feel the same moment he sees you then he really is a catch. A man like that will know how you feel without you even saying a word and he will always know what to say to comfort you.
He is someone who feels deeply and intensely and who cares about other people’s emotions. And if he is caring at the beginning of your relationship that is a sign that he will continue to be in the future as well.
Christine is the author of ‘Staring Into The Eyes Of Anxiety And Depression’, a book that will change the way you fight anxiety and depression.