It is said that true love happens only once in a lifetime but maybe some of you wouldn’t agree with that. Or maybe you thought that you had found real love but once you found all that you had been looking for, you actually realized that you were wrong the first time.
But no matter whether it happens once or more times, there are certain things you should know before actually finding it.
1. If you want love, you need to give it
Some people are quite selfish nowadays and they would like to feel real love but they don’t want to go the extra mile to actually give it to the one who deserves it. In that case, they can’t get what they crave and they end up disappointed because their plans didn’t work out in their favor.
And that is the problem with the whole thing. If you want something big, something quality and long-lasting, you need to give it too. As simple as that.
2. You first need to fall in love with yourself
How many times have you wished for someone to love you like you always wanted? How many times have you lost yourself trying to show your man that you are the one he has been looking for?
And in all that mess, you played by his rules, totally losing yourself. You always put others first while you neglected your wishes. But that is wrong. In order to find real love, you need to fall in love with yourself first. Only then can you give it to someone who really deserves it.
3. You need to believe you deserve love
If you don’t believe you deserve love, you will never find it. But if you cherish and respect yourself for everything that you have accomplished, you will have a different outlook on life. You will want all the important things from a relationship, things that matter the most in the end.
How To Get Inside Your Man Mind
If you want to trigger strong feelings of attraction and adoration in your man, you have to know how to get on the same frequency with him.
Imagine never having to deal with his silent treatment again. (Which is just really code for “I’m angry but don’t want to talk about it”.)
When you know how to read him and know what he’s thinking and feeling, unpleasant situations like the silent treatment will be a thing of the past.
If you believe that you don’t deserve love, you will put up with any shit your partner puts in front of you and be satisfied with someone who doesn’t pay any attention to you. Please don’t do this because there is a soulmate for every one of us. And there is one for you too, you just need to be patient and never settle for less than you deserve.
4. Forget about the perfect man
Women often have a picture in their mind of their ideal partner and when someone who is really good pops up in their life, they throw him away because he doesn’t fit the picture they imagined. In those cases, we often lose someone who is a hundred times better than the man of our dreams.
If you just give a chance to some people, you would be surprised how much they would make you happy. Please bear in mind that there doesn’t exist a perfect man but there is one who is perfect for you!
5. Don’t focus only on the exterior
Every woman would love to have a good-looking man but sometimes a man who is not so appealing at first turns out to be the one we have been looking for our entire life. So, when choosing the right one, don’t focus only on the exterior. It is true that looks can attract us but a character is what keeps us close to our partner.
Give a chance to those you don’t find attractive at first. You might be surprised how much they will make an effort to make you happy. In the end, you don’t need a top model who will cheat on you every time he leaves the house but you need a reliable man who will be damn proud to have you in his life.
6. You will kiss many frogs until you find your Prince Charming
If you want to find real love, you need to accept the fact that there will be many guys who won’t be the one but they will surely teach you a valuable lesson that you can use later in love relationships.
So, don’t get down if you don’t find the love of your life on your first date, sometimes it pays to kiss many frogs until the right one comes along. And when you see just how happy he makes you, you will realize he was worth the wait.
7. True love is as natural as breathing
There will be many relationships in which you won’t be able to be yourself. You will try and try but nothing will be as you always wanted. Just know that any relationship that doesn’t allow you to be the real you is not the right one.
When you finally find the right guy, you will realize what you missed while you were wasting time with all those wrong ones. Remember that true love is as natural as breathing. You don’t need to beg for attention or love but they will come to you completely naturally.